With Sabine Beecher’s unique couple relationship strategy you actually use your differences to become more understanding, warm and close every time you talk about an issue.

Couple relationship issues need a special communication strategy that takes you down to your underlying differences.  You resolve these together at their source so you can both feel satisfied.

Use the ‘S-hook’ – a listening/talking strategy for couples.

The S-hook guides your listening style so that –

• You understand exactly what your partner really means
• You understand exactly what you really mean 
• You feel understood, cared about, warm and close
• Your partner feels understood, cared about, warm and close
• You’re communicating at a deeper level and understanding grows
• You grow
• You find a solution for what you both need and want.

Accept yourself and be relaxed before you start.

Before you start on your listening/talking strategy, you must both be calm and relaxed.  Self Acceptance is the key!   

Find it in Part 1 of Happiness – It’s Up To You...easy steps to self acceptance and good relationships. Ten practical, logical self acceptance thinking steps replace ten common, unexpected thinking errors and bring out your own calm security, strength, resilience and confidence.

Learn to free yourselves from feeling attacked, defensive, judged or taking things personally, that interfere with talking and listening.

Then follow the listening/talking strategy outlined in Part 2 of the book and replace couple relationship stress with caring closeness. To explore book excerpts, click here.

Testimonials from couples
For what people say who have learned to look after their couple relationship – click here.

Testimonials after separation
For what people say who have read the book and discovered how to tackle life after relationship break-up – click here.
                            
Personal tuition
Sabine Beecher gives private tuition to couples in Sydney’s Chatswood area.  Also one-on-one, because when one partner finds a new way to handle old situations, there is usually a positive response.